(Alden Loveshade is a freelance writer who became involved in a political protest while vacationing in Boulder, Colorado, some time before JonBenet Ramsey was reported missing. Alden has been following the Ramsey case ever since. Here, Alden looks at the problem of false accusation, like what happened in the Ramsey murder case and to a small town mayor).
The tabloids, whether in print or local TV news form, are having a field day: a suspect has been arrested in the murder case of JonBenet Ramsey. If you don't know, Ramsey was a 6-year-old beauty queen who was found, dead and beaten, in her family's basement in Boulder, Colorado, on December 26, 1996. The parents, John and the recently late Patsy Ramsey, were named by the pop media as possible suspects, but were never charged.
Ironically, the number of parents who signed up their preschool and other young girls to run for beauty queen shot up after the case. It's an odd example of how sometimes publicity, any publicity, can help.
But the publicity must have been a very heavy weight on the shoulders of John and Patsy, and likely still weighs on John. How could anyone handle losing your daughter, finding her dead body, and then living with the blame that you killed her? Now there's a heavy weight on the former schoolteacher who was arrested in Thailand. Whether he is ever formally charged, whether or not he is ever convicted, this accusation will weigh on his shoulders until he dies.
In modern day America, and in much of the world, you don't have to actually be convicted of a crime against children; all you have to do is be accused. I know of a small town California mayor who was accused of sexually abusing his young daughters by his wife, who was suing for divorce. He was arrested, "coincidentally" while a reporter for the local newspaper happened to be there. In jail, he was given a towel to use after his shower, a towel with a long brown streak of "something" on it. Outside of jail, he was socially ostracized, and his political career was ruined.
He was eventually released, and all charges were cleared. But the accusations stayed with him.
As it happened, I was an acquaintance with one of the police officers who was involved in the arrest. That officer said the department had to arrest him, even though they believed it was all part of the custody dispute over who got to keep the kids. In fact, the officer said privately that the police never thought he was guilty. False accusations are common in custody disputes. But they had to do their legal duty, and an innocent man's career was destroyed.
The world will be watching the latest lurid twist in the Ramsey case. Expect to see photos of JonBenet popping up in even more places on the Internet, on supermarket tabloids, on tabloid TV programs, everywhere. Look for the photo op when the suspect is brought into the U.S. Look for schoolteachers to start feeling even more paranoid about being accused than they are now.
Is the suspect innocent or guilty? Of course we don't know. But in the eyes of many, regardless of whether or not he's found not guilty, he, like John and Patsy Ramsey, will be guilty for the rest of his life.
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When you write about an event immediately after it happens, you often find that the known facts change very quickly. That happened here. Very shortly after I wrote the article above, reports said John Mark Karr confessed to JonBenet's murder. If accurate, his apparent guilt came out of his own mouth.
But I wonder about his confession. People under stress, such as the stress of being arrested, or people suffering from certain mental problems, will sometimes confess just to relieve pressure or out of self-delusion. A confession may be real or not. And his confession apparently doesn't fit the known facts of the case, and his ex-wife apparently said he has an alibi. But I'll leave off making conjectures.
In any case, my point about false accusations, particularly in cases involving children, remains. Anyone thus accused can be punished by social ostracizism, difficulty in finding work or friends, and hate and fear for the rest of his or her life.
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See more recent entry in this case at http://loveshade.org/blog/2008/07/jonbenet_ramsey_parents_cleare.html